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by David Krasky, Psy.S. Licensed School Psychologist and author of Raising Future Adults As a school psychologist—and a parent—I often remind families of a simple but powerful truth: children do best when they know what’s coming . This is especially true during fun activities like vacations, trips to the store, birthday parties, or special outings. Ironically, the moments we expect to be joyful are often the ones that unravel the fastest when expectations are unclear. Excite

by David Krasky, author of Raising Future Adults In a world increasingly shaped by technology, automation, and artificial intelligence, one human skill remains irreplaceable: the ability to form and sustain meaningful relationships. As a school psychologist, I often tell parents that academic achievement may open doors, but interpersonal skills determine how far a child walks through them. Relationships will be the most important commodity of the future, not because knowledg

By David Krasky, Psy. S., Licensed School Psychologist and author of Raising Future Adults As a licensed school psychologist, I often remind parents that some of the most powerful learning moments for children don’t come from flashcards, apps, or even direct instruction. They come from observation. One of the most developmentally rich—and increasingly rare—forms of observation is people watching . If you were born before the invention of smart phones, odds are you were once a

The holiday season is filled with lights, excitement, and—if we’re being honest—an overwhelming number of “I want that!” moments. For children, this time of year is emotionally charged, making it the perfect opportunity to teach one of the most important lifelong skills: delay of gratification (unless you have unlimited money and resources...and even if you do, you should still teach this skill to your children). Delay of gratification is the ability to pause, think, and cho

Building Connection, Healthy Habits, and a Balanced Life In my work with families, one of the most common concerns I hear is this: “My child spends too much time on screens. How do I cut it back without a fight?” The truth is that screens are not inherently harmful—many offer educational value, creativity, and social connection. But when screen time crowds out relationships, physical activity, imaginative play, and real-world experiences , children lose opportunities that are

Parents are often surprised—and sometimes frustrated—to learn that the child who earns praise at school for being respectful, focused, and hardworking can become defiant, emotional, or dysregulated the moment they walk through the front door. This contrast is far more common than many families realize. Understanding why it happens is the first step toward creating a calmer, more cooperative home environment. As a psychologist, I see this pattern frequently, and it typically r

As parents, one of our greatest hopes is that our children will grow into independent, socially mature young adults who can navigate relationships, manage responsibilities, and make thoughtful choices. But independence and social maturity don’t develop on their own—they’re learned through meaningful experiences, consistent guidance, and opportunities to practice skills in the real world. Schools' have been focusing more and more on reading, writing and math with increased amo

"I'm fine!" "I'm only upset because you made me!" "Leave me alone!" As a school psychologist, I often remind parents that children “speak” in more ways than just words. Much of what we can learn about a child’s emotional and psychological functioning comes from carefully observing changes in their behavior, tone of voice, and daily habits. When parents tune into these subtle shifts, they gain valuable insights into how their child is feeling and can intervene early when conce

In a world that feels increasingly fast-paced, overstimulating, and demanding, many parents are searching for ways to support their children's emotional resilience and mental health. The truth is, some of the most powerful lessons you can teach your child about mental well-being aren’t delivered through lectures or therapy sessions—they're modeled in everyday life. Your daily choices, habits, and mindset shape the emotional blueprint your child will carry into adulthood. By a

"I'm so sorry. You're not alone. We love you." Most people are not taught what to say let alone how to support our children when they suffer any kind of loss or disappointment. Many of the tropes of the past included phrases that are the opposite of supportive like "It could be worse" or "Everything happens for a reason." While the person making these statements often has the best intentions, the person who is suffering is most likely unable to see things that way. You can th

We are social creatures. Since the beginning of mankind, societies have existed as groups of people for both physical and emotional survival. We are hardwired to connect with each other. Although it is easier to connect with people because of advancements in technology, air travel and highways, studies continue to show rises in loneliness.  A web-based survey found that out of 55,000 people, 40% of people aged 16 to 24 years reported loneliness  as compared to 27% of people o

Nobody wants to feel anxious. Especially kids. But by shifting our view of anxiety from one of a friend that we didn't expect (or want to drop by) instead of a boogie man that only grows the more we fear it, we can help them learn to cope with their nervousness until it eventually goes away. Much like the intrusive neighbor, anxiety sometimes shows up unexpectedly and usually doesn't go away until he causes a lot of discomfort. The goal in most therapies is not to eradicate a